As i see around ,read observe people, irrespective of relationships... i collate a possible list of what could be lead long lasting love between any 2 people ..
i guess love lasts because it is comfortable and simple ; if it is real, the heart will make it plain and simple.
long lasting love = not only commitment, shared interests, unselfishness, physical attraction, communication but also possibly a sum of
- 1. a certain look which sets the pulse racing
- 2. to be still able to have fun and share a laugh
- 3. ability to have/ spark some spontaneous good times
- 4. enjoy simply being together.
- 5. there are surprises
- 6. there is understanding of each other’s need for space to be one-self
- 7. there is sharing of chores..but more of ideas, thoughts, dreams, desires
- 8. there is forgiveness
- 9. there is sensitivity to be moved by the small emotions of life we see around
- 10. there is faith in god, in each other and the goodness of humanity, of hope
- 11. finally, there is knowing of each other’s habits.
i guess love lasts because it is comfortable and simple ; if it is real, the heart will make it plain and simple.
