Accommodate, Adjust, Adapt ..the way

As i see around

….From times immemorial it is the ability to accommodate, adjust, adapt which is at the forefront of development..even the Darwin theory was ..the fittest survived .To be the fittest ..one has to accommodate, adapt, adjust .Be it a city, be it a human being, be it a machine..be it a relationship.

A relationship requires a person to accommodate to the changing circumstances, adapt to the habits and behavior, and adapt to keep the relationship going on.

A city has to go through the same and accommodate the changing demographics, adjust to the behaviour and adapt to the expectations of its seemingly “intelligent, civilized” population. A machine, a mobile is successful only because it is continuously adapting itself till it becomes personalized..

When there is so much of accommodating, adjusting, adapting why do people still like actions and people who rebel- an Aamir Khan who boycotts functions, a Salman Khan who does not need social institutions to prove his acceptance and popularity.

 Even though evolution, education, societal norms makes more prototypes (that is why companies choose similar groups of behavior patterns..programs most watched..high TVRs/clothes more popular/social norms, accepted behavior that the majority of people accept) -Why would we let go of individuality?

Why does being accepted mean that one has to adjust and adapt once own way of thinking?

Maybe one can accommodate, adapt, adjust most things but not the individuality of what you are ..be it a human being, a city or a historical representation.

Adapt and adjust ..accomodate for reasons known to you..but to loose yourself  till you know no more what you were ; and you do not recognize the face in the mirror ….

….maybe this is not the way ..for years afterwards ..you would look in the rear view mirror and think ..of what you left behind. Take care..