Waiting for the Right Choice ?

People spend a lifetime trying to find a right choice...some people get stuck without the right choice .some people change their selves –their conversation , their looks , their being to be part of a crowd to find the right choice …But hey is that the right choice ..That is because we want people to conform

• To being there continuously
• To love us unceasingly
• To become trophies because the society wanted so, the parents wanted so...because time is passing by ..not because we wanted so...

Hence at times people are pressured to feel the absence of someone permanent, the pain of not having to say...i own him, her …This pressure makes them become what they are not ,but they clone other s who they thought were better at this ,,but they were not ..they or their circumstances forced them to comply .In a college we want company as it is out of fashion to be alone, when of marriageable age parents and peers force people to get hitched...for that is natural...but not doing so, does not mean that they were correct.So there must be someone who is ok to every-one and fits your picture ...but hey fingers of the hand were never equal.

So when you choose to look for a soul-mate do you put up conditions unending? The concept of soul mates is so much heard of, very difficult to experience...but as is written

• A soul mate is somebody with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, and/or compatibility. A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul – which is thought to be the ultimate soul mate, the one and only other half of one's soul, for which all souls are driven to find and join.
• This feeling is automatic

A soul-mate is one where you can feel the pain , you can feel the pleasure , where you can be your self and not have to put up a pretence .The gaze they have is honest , the conversation the truth ..you can be your self..

 So why do we search so much .at times when we find someone who we felt was a soul mate ..why do we test it continuously??. so come-on  let us connect with who we felt were our soul-mates..made us happy ,sad and we felt wee could conquer the world.. and then feel a little better , rather than feel unhappy..

Life will find its own meaning...for unknown are the reasons people and hearts come together...they met for some reason …maybe your soul-mate was not the traditional definition this world had…but if you felt comfortable...let the connect remain..kal ho na ho.